Giving Thanks by Mental Subtraction

Giving Thanks by Mental Subtraction

What if? Have you ever arrived at gratitude via the side door or perhaps the back door? Here’s what I mean. As Christopher Peterson articulates, “It may matter whether we think about the good things in our lives in terms of their presence (e.g., I have a...
Caregiving.com Progressive Blog Party

Caregiving.com Progressive Blog Party

Welcome, Caregiving.com readers, members, visitors, and bloggers! As a family caregiver for the past 11 1/2 years for my wife, I have learned so much from other caregivers.  Sometimes, this has meant inspiration, sometimes identification, and often it has meant...
After Thanks

After Thanks

What happens then? It’s just a sandwich.  Except that, we only eat this sandwich once a year. Leftover turkey, dressing, and cranberry sauce in between two slices of white bread…the kind that sticks to the roof of your mouth.  Sometimes, a dab of...
Beyond Compare

Beyond Compare

Beauty is here, now, anyway Three years ago, he ran a marathon. Today, he received treatments for bone cancer. At age 36, this is not what he had planned. Not even on the map. With two toddlers, a young wife, and scary circumstances, he has done a lot of comparing....
Finding the help I didn’t want to need

Finding the help I didn’t want to need

We all need help sometimes I would much rather be the helper than the helpee.  Like, to a fault.  Perhaps you can identify with this. But, over the past 11 years of my wife’s struggle with Dermatomyositis, I have found the help I didn’t want to need in the...