by Bruce McIntyre | Mar 30, 2018 | Caregiving
Finding Value in Past, Present and Future What have you done? Guilt, pride, remorse, acceptance, longing, gratitude and more probably stir around your thoughts of the past. So, let’s focus in for a moment. In the context of a current challenge, look back. How...
by Bruce McIntyre | Mar 23, 2018 | Spiritual Stuff
#4 of 4 Doors That Are Not Locked The first three in this series are the door of forgiveness , the door of friendship, and the door of peace. The assumption behind this series is that we struggle for years and bang on these doors only to find that in the end they are...
by Bruce McIntyre | Mar 16, 2018 | Spiritual Stuff
#3 of 4 Doors That Are Not Locked The first two in this series are the door of forgiveness and the door of friendship. What’s behind door number three? Peace. If you can position yourself to receive, peace will come your way. Just past 5 o’clock in the morning,...
by Bruce McIntyre | Mar 9, 2018 | Spiritual Stuff
#2 of 4 Doors That Are Not Locked So, there is grace for you. There really is. And, door #1 is the door of forgiveness. Significant steps toward forgiveness, whether in giving or asking, are your move. What’s behind door number two? Friendship. Some eras of our...
by Bruce McIntyre | Mar 2, 2018 | Spiritual Stuff
4 Doors That Are Not Locked “I think you may have a burr under your saddle,” she suggested. We were offended. But upon further reflection, she was right. We needed to do some forgiving. Over the next several months, my wife and I examined what we might be...
by Bruce McIntyre | Feb 23, 2018 | Spiritual Stuff
4 Doors That Are Not Locked Hiking along the Friendship Trail at Chickasaw State Park in West Tennessee about 11 years ago, I was grappling with all sorts of resistance. My mind swirled in furious fashion due to a number of significant life challenges. My wife’s...
by Bruce McIntyre | Feb 16, 2018 | Caregiving
Songs That Matter Some songs say what stirs in our souls. And, there is nothing like love remembered. The Beatles say this well in their song, In My Life. There are places I’ll remember All my life though some have changed Some forever not for better Some have...
by Bruce McIntyre | Feb 10, 2018 | Caregiving
Songs That Matter Sometimes, we just can’t fix it. We want to, but the dynamics of the situation are beyond our ability to control. The lyrics of this classic song, Fix You, by Coldplay, capture this sentiment precisely. When you try your best but you don’t succeed...
by Bruce McIntyre | Feb 2, 2018 | Spiritual Stuff
Songs That Matter Sometimes a song catches you and speaks more concisely than you could have done for yourself. A recent song by the Avett Brothers caught me. No Hard Feelings When my body won’t hold me anymore And it finally lets me free Will I be ready? When...
by Bruce McIntyre | Jan 26, 2018 | Resilience
Cutting Through the Fog At any given point, most of us are doing something that is working. We have habits or practices that contribute to health, good relationships, productivity, or peace. Of course, at any given point, most of us are doing something that may be...