Perfect Space

Perfect Space

Friendship #3 I wanna have friends that I can trustThat love me for the man I’ve become, not the man I wasAnd I wanna have friends that’ll let me beAll alone when being alone is all that I need -Avett Brothers Easily, my favorite band of the past decade or...
You Can’t Make Old Friends

You Can’t Make Old Friends

Friendship #2 What will I do when you’re gone?Who’s gonna tell me the truth?Who’s gonna finish the stories I start,The way you always do?When somebody knocks at the door,Someone new walks in.I will smile and shake their hand,But You Can’t Make Old Friends.It was me...
3 Ideas for Being a Better Friend

3 Ideas for Being a Better Friend

Friendship #1 As I waited for the group to begin, I watched and listened. People laughed and poked fun at each other. They inquired about each other’s well being, and sent well wishes back and forth. Obviously, they enjoyed each other’s company and needed it. So, it...
Proactivity for Boundaries

Proactivity for Boundaries

Boundaries #4 Consider the inherent proactivity involved in exercising boundaries.  #4 The Law of Respect- If we wish for others to respect our boundaries, we need to respect theirs.#5 The Law of Motivation- We must be free to say no before we can whole-heartedly...
Freedom Vs. Futility

Freedom Vs. Futility

Boundaries #3 Have you ever tried to change someone or wished that you could? As you probably discovered, this exercise is futile. Laws and 2 and 3 of Boundaries go together: The Law of Responsibility- We are responsible to each other, but not for each other. What...